So about two weeks ago, I did a blog about the online bullying that is going on in the lolita community... Having been on the awful behind the bows now about 4 times.. I kind of knew where they had got my picture from.. and wanted to prove it... So I had my boyfriend take a picture of me in a lolita dress without a blouse on! Some girls think this to be a 'sin'
and surprise surprise.. Today I'm on behind the bows at number 21! ...
I did post the picture on a lolita page on facebook,
called closet of frills:daily lolita co-ords...
A lot of girls post pics of what kind of lolita outfit they are wearing.. and other people can tell you what they think, if they like it, how to make it better and so on..
In lolita there are meant to be rules.. Like your ment to wear a blouse, your skirt or dress is ment to be puffy, your shoes have to be a certain style, and colours are meant to match and so on, I won't bore you with all the details..
But here are some..
So-called rule's of lolita from what I can find on line..
1# wear a blouse or cutsew at all times
2# You must wear bloomer under skirts and dressess at all times.
3#bloomer must not be seen.
4#skirts have to be under the knee
4#shoes have to match something in the outfit.
5#don't clash styles
There are a lot of these so-called rules around on line given by people who wear lolita,
I like to think that its open to interpretation for everyone.
I myself have only been into the fashion for just over a year now, it takes time to find your feet and find out what you like best, colours, shoes and make up, hair so on.. they're your clothes, wear them your way!
lolita has a lot of styles in it,
Here are some, (pics off line)
And there are other lolita styles around,
lolita is always expanding out and creating more looks, its not just one look that we all have to follow and look the same, A lot of people in lolita think that you have to wear this that and everything or your an 'ita' - that translates that someone is wearing the clothing but not looking the part - what ever that means?
I like to show you all how I like to wear it,
I know that some people may not like it but there are things in lolita that I dislike,
but I would never bitch about some girl who is new to it, there is giving help, and there is just being mean! and I'm not one of the mean girls, its abit like that film but online!
I took some screen pics to show you what the lolita com is like.. and this makes me very sad that people are like this to people that they have never met, and just hide behine a screen and be 'anonymous' Would they be like this to my face? or is that just not their two faced style?
'Facebook-Closet of frills'
'Behind the Bows'
'comment from Bows'
'Comments from bows'
On behind the bows someone named a friend of mine and tried to give her the blame for myself being on there, I know that its not her as she is not part of the facebook group and I know that she is better then that, she keeps her self to her self, she doesn't post on there or ever has, She is one of my good friends and I'm lucky to know her
(you know who you are)
I won't be posting anymore on that facebook group when the girls can't seem to be nice about how others wear the fashion.
' Me, Elly'